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During my many years as an
intuitive astrologer, and relationship coach I have observed
that the majority of my clients are in or were submerged in
unhappy relationships.
How could this be?
After all, it is the new millennium.
We have the availability of break-through "inner child
psychology" material. Self-help books are exploding off
the bookstore shelves. Countless gurus and teachers of love
and marriage, abound at universities and web-site locations.
Television talk shows repeatedly focus on ways to create happiness
and success in partnership. Yet, ninety percent of my clients
are dismal in partnerships with family, friends and lovers.
If You Are My Soul Mate, Why
AM I So Unhappy? explores this human condition. The real life
experiences of my clients represent millions of individuals
struggling to understand Self, the lover, the power of attraction
and how to attain personal happiness.
Our relationships provide
valuable education, for greater Self-awareness, knowledge
garnered only through intimate interaction with significant
others. We sometimes need to experience the fire of painful
relationships in order to ignite our soul's evolution. But
no relationship is a mistake. Each "stumbling block"
is actually a firm stepping stone guiding us toward enlightenment
and ultimate happiness.
The three categories of relationships
are the mortar binding every human experience:
Twin Flames, Soul Mates, and
Karmic Partnerships.
The Karmic relationship is
the one in which most people are involved. Many people tolerate
disrespectful, emotionally entangling, and sabotaging behavior
from a partner, because they perceive the individual to be
their soul mate. Worse, some endure relationships believing,
"This is as good as it gets." So they stay. Many
individuals give up hope on ever finding their soul mate or
attaining a happy relationship.
We all want to be fulfilled
and accomplished in our occupation and our personal lives.
But too many people subconsciously or consciously avoid potentially
enriching relationships. The sting of failure in past experiences
inhibits exposure to new liaisons. We tend to avoid that which
we fear or has wounded us. As a result, I have seen clients
focus totally their energies on careers, or other areas in
which they excel, yet be completely myopic about experiences
which could be personally enriching.
No relationship is a mistake.
We learn from each other,
and the most disparaging intimate partners can be our greatest
teachers. In fact, many have chosen to travel the route of
karmic partners, the teachers, to learn about Self and to
clean up the learned negative patterns in earlier partnerships.
Real growth springs forth
from wells of pain and suffering. All relationships have value,
purpose, and a preordained destiny. By viewing them as stepping
stones and not stumbling blocks, greater insight and profound
understanding into what mortars the basis of our own relationship
patterns, choices, and dynamics.
By the end of our journeys
we will have acquired a firmer foundations upon which to build
current and future meaningful relationships with our significant
others. able to recognize how to be a wise investor in our
relationships. Furthermore, we will acknowledge our past life
friends, family and lovers are crossing our personal path
today.
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