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Are You ready For Your Soulmate
Connection
It’s Saturday night and you’re sitting in front
of the television watching “I Love Lucy” reruns.
Ricky is berating Lucy for meddling in his business and Lucy
is crying bucketfuls. Even as low as Lucy is, she still has
Ricky’s love, not like you who is sitting there drowning
in pity because there is no one special in your life. You
get up and head to your bedroom, pulling the covers over your
head, wishing that you were never born. Does this sound like
you at one time or the other?
It doesn’t have to be
this way.
Find your spiritual path
Finding one’s soulmate
connection seems to be everyone’s major pastime lately.
Everywhere you turn, there’s someone who “has”
someone. But, if you take a few minutes to understand how
that special someone can come into your life, not only will
you make it easier for them to find you, you will understand
what it is about you that makes it hard for that soul mate
union to come about.
Yes, you. Everyone has a life’s
path they must take before they finish their journey here
on earth. This path was already marked before they came into
this world. If they learn how to stay on the “right”
path, everything they could ever want would come to them.
However, this is easier said than done.
Along your life’s path,
there are obstacles. These obstacles are like tests that you
must endure and conquer before you “find yourself”
and finding yourself is the key to finding your soul mate.
Get rid of bad karma
First of all, you have to
get rid of all bad karma in your life. Like a broom, sweep
it all out of your life and into oblivion. Free yourself of
all negativity in one big swoop. Declare yourself free from
everything that makes you non-worthy and start over. By relieving
yourself of the stresses as the result of bad karma, allow
good karma to infiltrate your life by doing things that are
good for you and your body. Once you do this, you will begin
a new life full of self-love.
Love yourself first
What is self-love, you ask?
Self-love is loving yourself more than anything else. Quite
the contrary, it’s not a selfish act to put yourself
above all others, for in the process, you become someone who
is confident and self-assured to help others. No longer do
you rely on others to make you happy, you rely on yourself
for this.
How do you get to that point
of self-love? By looking inside yourself. Ask yourself what
it is that you want out of life. Ask yourself where it is
you want to go with your life. Ask yourself who you are and
why you were put on this earth.
Once you discover who you
are and where you want to go in this life, you become a stronger
and more attractive person. In so doing, you allow your soul
mate to enter your life without you even knowing it.
Self-love vs. destructive-love
Mary* is a college student
from Minneapolis, Minnesota. Like most college students, she
spends most of her time studying for exams and polishing up
on her secretarial skills by subbing for the local real estate
office on the week-ends. Her goal is to become a realtor for
a top real estate agency. She knows what she wants and is
confident to reach her goal in the upcoming years. She is
prime material for her soul mate to come into her life.
Becky* is a young mother from
San Francisco, California, whose boyfriend left her after
learning she was pregnant. Scared, he left her penniless and
ran off without saying good-bye. Becky was left with a newborn
and no job skills. She didn’t know what she wanted out
of life and drifted from boyfriend to boyfriend, searching
for love. Is it any wonder she never found it?
The bottom line is this. It’s
never too late to sit yourself down and do some heavy-duty
spiritual counseling with yourself. And, it’s never
too late to start over. While Mary was following her life’s
path, Becky had strayed. At what point this happened, only
Becky could tell you. Perhaps her childhood had a rocky start.
Perhaps she had no guidance and Mary did. Whatever was the
reason, it was time Becky had a fresh start not only with
herself, but with her life’s destiny. It was time that
Becky searched inside herself to find out where her path strayed
and start back on the right one.
How does she do this? By following
her instincts. If Becky could sit down and take each relationship
that she was in and figure out for herself at what point did
she know that something wasn’t right, she would begin
to understand where she went wrong and could begin her new
path to happiness. And that’s what it’s all about.
Your path to happiness begins
with you.
Once you become the person
you should become—self-sufficient, self-confident and
self-worthy—you will open up that door for your soul
mate to enter. If the timing is right, your soul mate will
walk right in that door and carry you off to total bliss and
contentment. If you can relate to Becky’s situation
personally, it’s time to rethink your life. Make those
changes before it’s too late. You will find that your
soul mate is but a breath away.
* names have been changed
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