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Buddhism Attitude To Life
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I am extermely happy
to be given the opportunity to come and share with you the
contribution Buddhism could make to better the well being
of human society. Tonight we have come together to discuss
the benefits of sincere sharing of good things we value in
our society in general and particularly religion.
Those of
us who believe in one or another religion have seen the benefits
of religious practices if and when we practise them properly
ourselves. We have also seen the danger and suffering which
come out of direct misuse of religious beliefs, power and
religious fanaticism. The benefit or harm caused by religion
in everyday life is not in the merit or demerit of the religions.
It is entirely dependent on the behaviours of the people
who profess themselves to be religious. Since the problems
of the world are created by human beings they can only be
corrected by human beings, by properly following the fundamental
principles of human values, taught and practised by wise
men and women of the world. Let us not be in the illusion
that there were only one or few such wise people who came as
saviours of the world. We must credit ourselves and thank others
for the good things we enjoy in life and be responsible for
the bad things we experience.
According to Buddhism, Religion
or "the Dharma" is no more than a raft or a path
for people who wish to journey on it. If we have an accident
on the road it is not the road's fault and if we travel well,
we do not thank the road. However if we stand in the middle
of the road and tell other people that they do not know how
to walk, that is not just an accident, it is sheer arrogance
and ignorance. I have come here to share with you the Buddhist
perspective and how its fundamental ideas and practices can
benefit individuals and our society at large.
Buddhism and
its teachings respects all other religions and in fact, in
Buddhism, it is a transgression to speak ill of anybody or
a group of people or their philosophical or religious ideas.
Condemning other people or their religion is considered non-religious
conduct and is an idle-talk which is one of the ten non-virtues
deeds one must abandone. There is no devil outside other than
one's own inability to accept and respect other religions.
There is no external god other than the kindness and compassion
that can flow through us to other living beings. A mother dog
who shows her kindness to her puppy is a much better example
of compassion foe one to emulate than propagating teachings
which discriminate against colour, race, religion or gender.
If one religion cannot tolerate another how can it teach
to tolerate anything in this world? Religious intolerance
and narrow-mindedness among Church and religious leaders
have let down many of their adherents who call themselves "free
thinkers". These are not the benefits of religious practice
but the failure to understand and practise religion. Over the
years I have met many people who wish to be identified as "free
thinkers" rather than belonging to any religious denomination.
Many regard religion as that which narrows their thinking
and limits their freedom to reason. Many modern thinkers,
who have otherwise distanced themselves from strict religious
dogma have become attracted to the Buddhist way of life and
its powerful ideas, have regarded Buddhism as a way of life
rather than a religion.
Many Australians I have known, who consider themselves
as Buddhists have become interested in Buddhism and have adopted
its non-pressured approach to life, mainly because they do
not have to believe in things they have not examined and experienced
themselves. They are taught to think for themselves rather
than have a blind faith in something and are not even allowed
to think of it logically. They are encouraged to find a safe
way for themselves rather than accept the one and only ready-made
highway.
There is no one highway to enlightenment, but there
are different footsteps of past masters we can follow if we
wish. Learn from everbody and every circumstance and take what
it means most to you, but let us not be over-ambitious and
try to make a highway to lead everyone. This is how the seeds
of religious fanaticism are planted.
Several years ago there
was a big inter-religious conference in London which was
represented by all major religions. Buddhism was represented
by a Sri Lankan monk. The conference was held in a beautiful
Church and most of those attending were Christians. All the
speakers sat on the stage and the Sri Lankan monk who was
the smallest in physical size was asked to speak first. The
first remark he made was nothing but a few minutes of total
silence and the people in the audience thought he was not
going to say anything and the Master of the Ceremony acted
rather anxiously. Then the monk smiled towards the Master
of the ceremony and nodded as if he was going to say something
after all and then he said: "I
am sorry, Ladies and Gentlemen, there is no God". Well,
I am not going to repeat it here but such comments do raise
questions as to what Buddhism is all about and the role of
Buddha for Buddhists.
To be frank Buddha was a great critic
of the idea of creation of the world by some supreme God-Head
and the idea of the original sin and eternal heaven and hell.
To the Buddha, most important thing was "now", the
present moment and how we go from here rather than what happened
in the past and what might or will happen in the future. Past
is gone and future is not yet due except what we are creating
now. He did this not out of believing in some theory but examining
it for himself through analysis and rationality. Buddha came
up with four fundamental principles which he thought was univeral
to all human problems. Even to his most faithful disciples,
the Buddha after his enlightenment, warned of the danger of "blind
faith" and asked them not to believe everything what
he said just because he taught them. He emphasised the importance
of individuals to test and examine the authenticity of his
teaching through personal experience, not through mere belief.
These four principles are called the four Noble Tuths. (Details
Of The Four Noble Truths)
1. The
first is called the Truth of Suffering
(Dukkha Satya).
2. The second truth is the truth
of the origin of the suffering.
3. The truth of the
path is the third noble
truth. It is also the path known as "The
Middle Way (Madyam marga).
4. If we
have individuals who adopt this theory of the eight noble
paths they will experience the fourth noble truth, the truth
of the cessation of suffering.
Finally
may the ills of humanity not defile the ever shining truth
of the enlightened ones, like the lotus flower untainted
by the soil in which it grows. Accept what you can now, for
this cannot be repeated again. What you can not accept now,
do not reject it straight away, for you might find it useful
later on. Let there be awareness, compassion and tolerance
among all living beings.
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