Can't be bothered??? Too bad, you are already doing it.
You have been doing it from birth. You can't get out of it. It
is happening with every thought you have and you have about two
thoughts per second. That's why its important to understand the
process. You can learn more about the way you work reading these
newsletters or you can invest in the 'Key To Life Manual' as detailed
below.
Today
we are going to discuss how you feel when you look at others.
I
notice that when I write about action and doing things like making
a change in your life, that I receive a larger than usual number
of 'unsubscribe from this newsletter' requests. It's interesting
because action and doing, is very confrontational.
When
something is confrontational, its 'in your face' and it makes you
feel bad.
NO!
Wait a moment.
You
make you feel bad.
Here
is an example.
A
friend of yours buys a large house. He does so well before you or
any of his friends, family and acquaintances can afford to do the
same. All of a sudden you decide that he has 'changed' and you lose
contact with him. In fact he loses many of his friends.
Your mind plays a trick on you. It says you have to compete because
you are in the same circle as he is. It says that, because you don't
have a house like his, you are not as good. Your mind decides for
you, without you even realising what has occurred. There is a comparison
to be made and once there is a comparison, you are inadvertently
competing.
Competition
causes stress. Stress is not necessarily bad, especially in moderation.
Your mind in order to cope with the tension of competition looks
for the easiest way out.
If
there was a flicker of thought along the lines of -
'I
will never be able to afford such a house'
then
the tension release for your mind, will NOT be to go and get a house
just like his. It will be to disassociate from your friend. In other
words, not see him anymore. You can then tell yourself that everything
is alright and acceptable. No one in your circle is doing better
than you.
You
justify ditching your friend by saying that he has changed.
He
has changed!
But
that's not why you don't see him anymore. Not seeing him because
he has changed, would imply that he has changed for the worse. This
is rarely the case except in the movies where the wealthy guy is
always the arrogant bad guy.
The
fact is that he has changed, full stop. He has a bigger house and
there are other differences, otherwise he wouldn't be in this new
situation.
The
reason you don't get along as you did before is because you
haven't changed!
Let
me put that another way. It doesn't matter whether you accept or
agree but the world is constantly changing. When you do nothing
ie: 'don't change' you are really changing!
This
happens because in the world that you live in, change is relative.
Relative to the changing world you are now and every moment from
now on, different.
Bad
luck, you can't stand still. If you think you can, you are mistaken.
Lets
get back to your friend. You
feel bad so it is easier to not see what your friend has.
Even
though this situation happens with people everyday it is extreme
to not see your friend anymore. You might just use words (remember
words come from thoughts and they build your world) to soothe your
soul.
"oh
it's ok, he inherited the money"
You
attribute the responsibility to something other than him. It allows
you to look better by default. It prevents him from looking too
good.
This
example may not be to your liking. You might be thinking
'who
cares about big houses?'
Apply
this to relationships. You really want a relationship and haven't
got one. You see your friends 'the happy couple' and the same thing
occurs.
This
is all an illusion. It is caused because you are not aware of how
your mind, the greatest tool in the known universe, works. You are
focusing on the wrong things because you are not aware of what your
thoughts are doing.
Focus
on what you want and don't put limitations on yourself. You can
have whatever you want in life. Your mind was designed to allow
this to happen. You need to learn to use it to get what you want.
By
not looking anymore, that is by surrounding yourself with 'small
house' people or with single people you are preventing the vision
from staying in your mind.
If
you want a big house or a great relationship you need to keep these
things in your mind. One way of doing this is to surround yourself
with the people who already have what you want. It helps you to
keep your vision.
It's
easy to master this. The
'key To Life' Manual shows you
how to get exactly what you want.
