OBE - Astral
Sex
(...Continued
From OBE Astral Sex Part 1)
Real Time Sex Process:
There are as many possible
variations of the real-time sex act as there are variations
with physical body sex acts, including gay and lesbian varieties.
Also the type of genital-like extension sensations that can
be experienced, male or female, are not limited by gender.
However, the genital and base centers are always involved
somewhere in the sexual energy feedback equation. The coming
break-down of a real-time OBE sexual encounter is therefore
best considered as being the basic real-time sex process only.
1. Some variation of boy meets
girl happens between two real-time projectors. Sexual thoughts
and imagery cause desire to be felt by the initiator. This
desire reflects back and causes immediate sexual arousal to
occur in the initiator's own physical body.
2. Physical sensations of
sexual arousal now rebound back into the initiator's own projected
double, from their own sexually aroused physical body.
3. Sexual thoughts, imagery
and erotic sensations flood back and forth, compounding swiftly
on telepathic, emotional and bioenergetic levels. This rapidly
intensifies sexual arousal in both the initiator's projected
double and physical body.
4. Now fully aroused, the
initiator's physical body floods its projected double with
sexual energy from its now highly active genital center, via
the Silver Cord, as his/her physical body rapidly approaches
orgasm. This sexual energy flooding momentarily strengthens
the initiator's projected double, but sexual urgency now consumes
the initiator and results in a total loss of control. Once
this stage is reached there is no way to avoid the inevitable
consummation of the real-time sex act.
5. The initiator's own projected
double will now usually attempt some form of rapid and urgent
copulation with his/her ensnared passive partner. This forms
a remote energetic connection between the physical bodies
of both projectors, via both their projected double's Silver
Cords. This connection is much stronger if the passive projector
becomes sexually active at this stage.
6. Erotic thoughts and sensations,
emotional and sexual energies feed back and forth between
the initiator's physical body and its projected double, resulting
in a type of erotic sexual energy feedback, swiftly compounding
and increasing. This will usually involve the passive partner
as well, especially if he/she has become aroused and more
or less involved. This creates something like a four sided
sexual energy feedback loop, greatly increasing its intensity.
7. Orgasm now occurs in the
physical body of the initiator, and very often in his/her
passive partner's physical body as well. Physical body orgasm
usually ends the projection immediately.
Depending upon the speed
and intensity of this type of real-time sexual encounter,
the passive partner may or may not become actively involved
in the real time sex act. Therefore his/her physical body
may or may not experience orgasm. This depends greatly upon
the timing of the encounter: on whether or not there is enough
time before the energy connection is broken by the initiator,
when he/she consummates their side of the real-time sex act.
The entire real-time sex process can take place, from the
first stray sexual thought to orgasm, in under ten seconds;
with either male or female initiator.
The above real-time sex process
can have many variations and subtle nuances. Orgasm will almost
always occur in the initiator, and more often than not in
his/her passive partner as well. The above process can happen
so fast that the initiator will often be unaware he/she has
initiated sex. That is, until a rapidly approaching physical
body orgasm signals the end of his/her projection.
Age, physical condition,
sexual orientation and inclination do not have any effect
on out-of-body sex. Many people, although they may be old
and think they have outgrown the sex urge, find they feel
young and sexually active again during OBE. In the out-of-body
environment everyone is young and vital and therefore has
an inherently sexual nature. And you will never see an old,
fat, skinny, crippled or ugly projector. The innate sense
of whole-body self-awareness that everyone has sets when a
person is in their prime, usually around the age of thirty-five.
This sense of whole-body self-awareness shapes the image of
the projected double, which is not limited by the true appearance
and condition of the actual physical body.
Because of the above, sexual
identity can also affect perceptions of the physical body
during OBE. For example, a male with female sexual identity
can appear as having a female body during OBE. In the fluid
OBE environment you are what you think and can become what
you feel. (See 'Shape Shifting' -- Astral Dynamics)
Astral Sex:
Astral sex (and even lucid
dream sex) is dimensionally more remote and thus causes far
less sexual energy and sensory feedback than real-time sex;
although this will still occur to some degree. Astral sex
is therefore slower and more like normal physical body sex.
The enhanced genital sensitivity and abnormal genital sensations,
as discussed above, are also greatly reduced during astral
sex. Because of this, astral sex can provide extremely realistic
sensations: much more like normal physical body sex. Astral
sex can also sometimes be orgasm-less due to this reduction
in sensitivity, and because of the lengthier time it takes
to achieve orgasm and hence consummate the astral sex act.
Apart from other living projectors,
many of the characters encountered during astral projections
do not appear to be real; although some are what could be
called native inhabitants of astral realms. Also, as I mentioned
earlier, most of the characters encountered during lucid dreams
do not appear to be real. Many seem to be something like created
shells, whose sole purpose is to form a temporary part of
the scenery.
It is possible to have sex
with a created or unreal character, although the genital contact
sensations resulting from this type of sexual encounter are
greatly reduced; seemingly more distant than sex with other
projectors. The sensations of sex, in this case, appear to
be provided by the subconscious mind of the projector/dreamer;
probably based on memories of past real-life sexual encounters.
The erotic mental imagery and sexual sensations are, however,
just as real to the physical/etheric body and energetic feedback
will still occur, albeit less strongly and in a kind of solo
sexual energy feedback loop.
In my experience, other people
encountered during real-time OBE's are usually other living
projectors. However, this does not hold true once a projector
shifts out of the real-time zone and into the lower astral;
which will often happen unnoticed. There is one main way to
tell real projectors and sentient astral beings from unreal
created characters. Real and unreal beings behave and react
quite differently to interference, including sexual advances.
An unreal character will simply stand there and let anything
be done to them, be it sex or murder. They will not resist
or complain in the slightest, no matter what is done to them.
However, real astral beings and other projectors, even unaware
sleep projectors, will be found to object, resist, fight,
verbally abuse and even attack interfering projectors; although
they will usually just leave the area.
In the crowded areas of the
lower astral (the lower astral is heavily populated, mainly
with unaware sleep projectors) projectors may find themselves
occasionally passing through the bodies of other projectors.
This often cannot be avoided, given the usual directional
control problems. If they are not careful, this in itself
can often trigger the astral sex process, especially when
passing through the projected doubles of the opposite sex.
Even if a projector keeps his/her mind clear they will still
feel a sexual stirring; although this can be controlled and
overcome if his/her stays focused and keeps moving. This type
of accidental astral sex will only snare projectors if they
are careless.
As I said, the majority of
OBE sexual encounters are unintentional and/or accidental
affairs; although there most definitely are exceptions. Sex
just happens when sexual thoughts, fantasy imagery and sexual
energies get out of control. Either male or female can initiate
the out-of-body sex process with the same end result. This
can also happen between two projectors of the same gender.
Only one projector is needed
to initiate out-of-body sex, which in most cases is usually
enough to involve and consummate sex for both projectors.
If projectors do not wish to have out-of-body sex, they have
to be aware of what can happen and act quickly. If they meet
another projector and think or sense a sexual encounter may
be likely, they must move away very quickly to avoid it, especially
in real time. But this is easier said than done. It can happen
very quickly and the initiator may not even intend to have
or cause a sexual encounter. He/she will often be just as
shocked by what transpires as their unwitting partner may
be.
One comforting thought here
is that no one can get seriously hurt through chance out-of-body
sexual encounters; no matter what or how it happens. It is
not only very quick, but there is no actual physical contact.
It is also rarely remembered by either party; and if remembered
then only as a dream. And as there is no actual physical contact,
it really is the ultimate safe sex. In my opinion, OBE sex
can cause no more psychological scarring than a bad dream
might.
An important aspect of the
natural barrier which out-of-body sex forms, which deserves
consideration, is just what this can do to the energetic value
of a projector. In the out-of-body environment like attracts
like in a very big way. If projectors deliberately seek out
and engage in disreputable sexual behavior during a projection,
they will find the dimensional level they are capable of operating
on will begin to lower significantly. Repeated deliberate
sexual encounters (one could call this astral rape, with all
this implies) could well mean projectors will begin sliding
down the dimensional scale until they find themselves frequenting
the very low astral sub-planes. This new level will have a
more predatory sexual nature and theme to it; better suited
to this type of projector.
For all the above, occasional
chance or unintentional out-of-body sexual encounters do not
appear to cause any significant or lasting drop in projector's
natural dimensional level of operations. And this does not
apply to out-of-body love and romance: where there are shared
feelings of love, intimacy and desire. The energetic values
involved with love and sex are, I believe, quite different
from those generated by lust and sex merely for the sake of
release. Consummation of the out-of-body sex act will, however,
still be found to cut OBE short, especially real-time OBE
sex.
Privacy, Ethics & Projection:
There is a widespread belief
stemming from early this century that has not only remained
unchanged but has been continually propagated ever since.
This belief is that if a projector deliberately invades the
privacy of another person for immoral purposes or unethical
gain, or engages in any disreputable or sexual behavior during
OBE, they will be banned or stopped from further projecting
-- grounded by a higher authority. It is even believed by
some that there is a kind of astral police force watching
out for ethical, moral and astral rights transgressors.
According to my experience
this belief is a total myth. There are many natural barriers
associated with OBE, but there are no ethical nor moral limitations.
No higher authority is interested in the activities of projectors.
No astral police force will appear and punish bad or naughty
projectors.
The ethical and moral correctness
of any out-of-body action depends entirely upon the judgment
and conscience of the projector concerned. With out-of-body
sex especially, strong natural barriers are encountered and
there are natural repercussions for repeated disreputable
behavior. If projectors cannot control their behavior they
will not last very long nor travel very far while out of body.
Their experiences will tend to be quickly curtailed whenever
they meet any potential sex partners, real or unreal. This
cuts their OBE's very short indeed and keeps them off the
astral streets, so to speak.
If projectors go actively
seeking sex, they will come across an ever increasing number
of potential sex partners. The lower astral planes teem with
these. Like attracts like in a big way in the sensitive out-of-body
environment. The only repercussions stemming from habitual
bad behavior, as far as I am aware, are a lowering of energetic
values and of the levels of operation possible. In this case
the attraction of other like-minded projectors and beings
is, I consider, natural consequence enough. This has the effect
of keeping sexually overactive projectors away from more serious-minded
projectors. This has, I feel, a certain poetic justice to
it.
As to invading the privacy
of people in the real world, or other projectors in the out-of-body
environment, even for deliberate unethical gain or immoral
purposes, there are no restrictions. In my experience there
is no astral police force or astral overseer who will suddenly
blow a whistle and say: "OK mate…I saw what you
just did! Get straight back into your body and stay there…Right
Now!" Imagine the enormous number of astral police that
would be required just to keep tabs on several billion people
day and night?
The intentions involved with
privacy issues are important. Continual deliberate breaches
of privacy will cause a serious alteration in a projector's
energy values. This will attract other like-minded projectors
and negative-type beings into their OBE's as well as into
their real life; which is consequence enough methinks.
It seems the whole idea that
out-of-body behavior is policed was started by early researchers
and authors on OBE and related subjects, early last century
and late in the century before this. Most would have realized
the real truth of this matter, of this I am quite sure. However
they seem to have worried that if the public knew the whole
shocking truth about the sheer freedom of OBE, they might
use OBE for what they considered to be immoral purposes. In
a way, these researchers and authors tried to impose their
own set of moral judgments and values upon the public with
a "Stop it or you'll all go blind!" kind of attitude
and blanket warning. They hoped by this, I am sure, to influence
people into using OBE for good and noble purposes only.
Stemming from this, these
early writers and researchers have unwittingly imposed this
same set of values upon the present day. Consider the early
written works in OBE and related fields, and how these have
been used as reference and source material by all researchers,
authors and teachers ever since. All of these early works
have had some influence on present day thought, concerning
behavioral limitations of OBE. As a result of this we now
have many versions of 'The Astral Overseer' and 'The Astral
Police' types of beliefs to deal with; all stemming from the
original morally inflicted Victorian fallacy. (RB)
More Articles On OBEs
(OBEs Privacy
& Ethics)
(OBE Astral
Sex Pt 1)
(OBE Astral
Sex Pt 2)
(OBE - Understandability
& Memory Download Problems)
(OBE FAQ's)
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